I’m an avid history student in my middle age. I am particularly fascinated by learning about anything that wasn’t on the standard American/World History slate when I was going through school - which, as it turns out, is a LOT.
I have a particular interest in the 900-early 1000s era. I find it so fascinating that during the time period that Europe was in the dark ages or fighting the Crusades, the eastern side of the globe seemed to be enjoying various golden ages of literature, prosperity, and wealth. There were also some really fascinating historical women during this era - one of which is the subject of my article today.
Sei Shōnagon was a court lady who lived during the Heian period in Japan. She was a well-known poet and writer, the most notable of her works being a diary of sorts called “The Pillow Book.” Even though she lived at a point in history where women weren’t given much attention in historical annals (to the extent that we don’t actually know many important details of her life, like her real name, birth or death dates), she made this indelible, forever mark on the world through her writing.
Her writing was witty and it delved into all kinds of subject matters via lists of things. I particularly enjoy her list of “awkward things”, which feels very applicable to modern life:
AWKWARD THINGS
One has gone to a house and asked to see someone; but the wrong person appears, thinking that it is he who is wanted; this is especially awkward if one has brought a present.
One has allowed oneself to speak badly about someone without really intending to do so; a young child who has overheard it all goes and repeats what one has said in front of the person in question.
Someone sobs out a pathetic story. One is deeply moved; but it so happens that not a single tear comes to one's eyes—most awk- ward. Though one makes one's face look as if one is going to cry, it is no use: not a single tear will come. Yet there are times when, having heard something happy, one feels the tears streaming out.
I love the story of Sei Shōnagon, because it teaches me that even in an era where women were, in theory, nameless and powerless - there still existed the potential for changing and influencing the world for generations to come.
If you knew that your words would be read for the next 1000 years, what kind of list would you write?
Cathy